If You Want to Raise a Runner, Raise an Athlete

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Photo Credit: Game Grand Rapids Youth Soccer October 15, 2011 by Flickr user Steven Depolo used under a Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license.

If you want to raise a runner, raise an athlete.  OK, maybe “marathon-finisher” doesn’t typically make the list of aspirations we have for our children, like “become President,” “have children of your own (so you know what I’m going through),” or “stay out of jail” do.  But “live healthy” and “be happy” nearly always make that list, and there is no better way to achieve those goals than to maintain a fitness regime, and few better such regimes than to be a runner.  So, yes, it probably is on your list.

But how do you go about doing it?  It’s doubtful you will sign your 5-year-old up for a 5K. Maybe the local “fun run” can pique their interest, but it’s not likely to generate the need or desire for designing and executing a training plan. And the jury is still out over what the long-term effects of starting to run competitively at a young age does to our bodies.

On the other hand, children love to run if given the opportunity, and will do so without much encouragement (in fact, many do so despite warnings not to, as you have probably witnessed in your local family-friendly eatery).  Children have little concept of “fatigue” at a young age.  And when they do eventually become winded, they both recover quickly and forget exactly how they got in such a condition in the first place.  As they proceed through elementary school, they become aware of the fact that exercise creates fatigue and, occasionally, pain, but they don’t learn to fear such a condition unless we let them.

So why let them? And the best way to keep their mind occupied and avoid letting it dwell on such topics is to make sure they are having fun while exercising.  This is where sports such as soccer, basketball, swimming, and, maybe to a lesser extent, football and baseball come in.  When having fun and, at a manageable level where the activity is not accompanied by parental pressure, competing in such activities, they remain oblivious to the “work” they are putting into it, and come to enjoy the process.

I don’t know how such physiological variables as VO2max and lactate threshold develop as we mature, but it seems likely that we can set a good base for such attributes by keeping active.  Additionally, such key elements as balance, coordination, and strength develop more naturally when playing sports than they do when focusing too early on “just” fitness.  All these skills help in making the transition to running easier, when we choose to no longer compete in the sports of our youth. While we can make a later start in our efforts to develop the attributes, it is far more difficult to do so (and those who successfully do are to be admired for their dedication). And the social aspects of youth sports also fill a key developmental need for the youth of today.

Soccer seems the best suited for positioning someone to be a future runner, due to its demands on balance, coordination, strength, and endurance.  I know that, for this athlete at least, it was the recognition that the average high-school player runs six miles per game that led directly to an interest in running.  The roughly (i.e., imprecisely measured) 30-40 miles per week I started running during high school summers led directly to my confidence in turning to running when I put on 15 pounds after my first (and only) college soccer season.

So encourage your child to play sports.  The skills and attributes they build while doing so through their key developmental years will pay back in droves when they face the challenges and temptations of independent decision-making. And maybe that will one day help them become President of the United States.  Or at least raise healthy children of their own.

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  • http://www.strengthrunning.com Jason Fitzgerald

    I’ve actually had this discussion with my wife – how do you raise a really fast runner? While I don’t care if my future kid is a runner (I’d support whatever sport or hobby she gets into), if she were then of course I want to raise a fast one! I think the value of unstructured play is huge, like hanging out at a playground for a few hours. The running, climbing, crawling, hanging, and every other motion that a kid goes through in a good playground is valuable. The way I see it, it’s a great way to build the balance, athleticism, and agility that comes in handy later for all sports.

  • http://twitter.com/DennisMurray DennisMurray

    I’m happy to say I have two young athletes in our home – 5 and 8 year old boys.  So far they’ve been exposed to a wide range of organized sports – Baseball,Basketball, and Soccer.  Both now have also run “Fun Runs” up to a mile with the general public.  They’ve also done fundraising events at school that went up to 2 miles!

    But the biggest part of raising an athlete is showing that it’s still fun to adults, after the cheering and spectacle of it ends. Living by example – just like in every other facet of healthy living.

    There are lots of kids in love with the spectacle of sport (the cheering, merchandise, trophies, the wins) but getting your kid to love the sport even when no one’s watching is much harder.

    I blog regularly on this topic: http://beanathlete.wordpress.com.

  • http://predawnrunner.com Greg Strosaker

    Great points and thanks for the comments Dennis. One of the biggest things I’ve been trying to teach my 6-year-old son as he’s started soccer, baseball, and, soon, basketball is how much more important practice is than the games at this point. I point out that when I run, most of my time is spent training for the race, not in the race itself. He is really starting to enjoy practicing his sports on his own (it’s enough that my wife or I are watching), and the gains he’s making because of that are incredible. I look forward to checking out your blog.

  • http://predawnrunner.com Greg Strosaker

    Agreed, we have hit nearly every playground in a 10 mile radius from home and invested in a pretty substantial one ourselves. I do like moving into the organized sports phase now though to help bring some of the structure, discipline, and teamwork skills that are so necessary later in life.

  • http://profiles.google.com/rachel1824 Rachel Caine

    Great post, Greg. I was never encouraged to be active or play sports by my parents (in fact, they labeled me as a “spaz” and basically told me I could never play sports, not even teaching me to ride a bicycle until I was 13). My brother was equally unengaged in sports, and both of us struggled to find our passion for fitness later in life. Now that my husband and I are actively thinking about children of our own and how we’d like to raise them, getting them involved in sports is one of the number one things on my list for them. Fitness and music — two things I didn’t get to do as a kid and two things that are SO difficult to become involved in later in life. Even if they happen to not be interested in sports in the traditional sense, there are so many ways to integrate regular physical activity into a life with your kids and that’s so important to me.

    Thanks again for a very thoughtful post.

  • http://predawnrunner.com Greg Strosaker

    Thanks Rachel – I don’t intend to criticize your parents, but it’s a shame to see a child discouraged from trying sports. We live in a huge suburb of Cleveland, where the high-school teams are state championship contenders in many sports, so I’m not counting on my sons necessarily being successful at that level, but we appreciate having the recreational leagues as an alternative. There is obviously a fine line between encouraging them and pushing them to do sports, but I’d err early towards the side of “pushing” if necessary. Our kids are healthier, happier, sleep better, and do better at school when they get their daily exercise.

  • N-munson

    Awesome! Thanks Greg. I was a “backyard” sports kid and summer swimmer and I never cared to nor was really encouraged to do sports in school. But really no fault of my parents because at the time basketball and lacrosse and filed hockey were not of interest to me, and gymnastics, though the balance beam was fun to “walk on” was not going to be my forte either. When my kids came along there were more choices and they all participated in various sports. Through my adult years I became a runner and it is a huge part of my life…I will be excited to see my granddaughter’s interest in sports as her Mom is an avid runner too. We will have fun helping her to enjoy the journey!

  • http://predawnrunner.com Greg Strosaker

    Thanks for your comment, no doubt that having positive role models helps develop athletic interest in children (my 6-year-old asks me about my running all the time), and there is nothing wrong with backyard sports – frankly, I think I spent more time playing soccer and basketball at home than I did in organized sports, and my sons are starting to do the same (even, in both cases, in the basement – with predictable consequences to lamps, etc.).

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